Well, you know why 2 year olds have tantrums, don't you? They feel out of control in their own world; someone else is always telling them what they can and cannot do, and they feel frustrated. Sound familiar?
That might be the single most helpful thing anyone has said to me...seriously! It makes me feel less crazy.
Yes...I can definitely work with making the move something I want. That's easy, it is something I have always wanted, the timing is just earlier and the partner absent!