Well, you know why 2 year olds have tantrums, don't you? They feel out of control in their own world; someone else is always telling them what they can and cannot do, and they feel frustrated. Sound familiar?
For many, if not all, of us here, our S's have been calling the tune throughout this process. Yes, you can take control to an extent, but only w/in certain parameters. You can control your part of the D negotiations, but you can't make the D not happen.
Is there a way for you to feel like you're taking back control? Maybe by somehow making this move something you want, for example?
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
