Jen, you're falling into a trap that's really easy to do - believing that the fate of your R hangs in the balance, hinging on the impact of a single action (particularly a backslide). But backslides ALWAYS happen - even in the best Rs, there are mistakes from time to time. When they occur, it's not important that you and H can forget - it's important that you both can forgive.

I suspect you are right and H is in his "cave". My suggestion: Act As If all is forgiven on both sides and be your normal wonderful self around him. I bet he'll let it slide if you do.

Looking forward to talking to you this weekend! \:\)

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22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07
Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!