I felt that way too. I didn't feel like I could actually have any sort of R talk! Unfortunately, my H was leaving for a year deployment and I finally had to get up the nerve to talk to him and I did and it was ok. He's gone now and I'm sure glad I actually talked to him. I think there are 2 things: (1) you can either keep this up for awhile longer until you feel like things are truly going to be ok and then talk to him or (2) decide that you need to just get it out -- either we're going to be ok or not and I'm not going to walk on eggshells anymore & this is how it is, but in a nice & gentle way, you know? I kept putting it off -- I was scared that it would send things right back to the D bomb stage, but like I said, it may have to be like this for awhile, but sooner or later, you may have to finally just air everything out and it's going to go one way or the other.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
