Sol, just don't let anger, resentment and hurt rule how you are going to approach your M. If you do, any attempt will fail. Your W had an A, that is fact, but where do you go now? Do you follow the path love sends you down or the one that bitterness chooses? I know I have allowed anger etc to rule me lately and, like you, I have been very tired. I know I need to now take the reins and choose for myself which way I am going NOT react in a kneejerk emotional fashion every time my W does something provoking. I need to act directed by love not anger. I think you can do this too.
