Stang,
I think it is a good idea to wait also. Sneek over to my thread and read what CL has written he gives great advise.

My H also does not talk and i think he is either scared or trying to brush things under the rug. the advise from CL seems very worthy of my attention and i plan on using it.(everyone on this board has worthy contributions to share).

Jak


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