I think it's good to get out and away when the tension gets high. Try to bring it down by doing some SPECIAL THINGS FOR YOU. Go hang out with a guy friend, go to a bookstore, get some coffee and read some books (relationship ones!!!), take yourself out for a nice dinner and a drink and even sit at the bar and strike up some conversations... Heck, get a Harley and join all the MLCers!!! (only kidding on that last one!).

Unfortunately, there are some people who don't realize that the grass is not greener on the other side until they actually experience it for themselves. And if you don't give them enough leash to figure this out, they'll continue wondering and not appreciate the lawn they have.

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.