I too believe that my WAH-MLCer didn't come around the first time, but has given in. Hence, we, the LBS have extended the MLC & placed us in a quandry of what to do.
Is it better to continue where we are or to set "THE" boundry & have WAS look @ it as an ultimatum through their MLC fog/haze? Thereby validating what their MLC mind considers us to be.
This is a concern that I am having on my own thread & will discuss w/DB Coach next Tuesday.
Until then, I can only tell you to follow yourself & do what you feel is right for you & family. Can you continue to live the way you are now, not knowing if W will ever "come around?"
Honestly, that is something that I am REALLY struggling w/myself, & am trying not to give up, since I made the choice many months ago "to stand."
Sending you all the PMA I can!
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08