Tyler, The level of support is pretty high in the MLC forum. That might be better than going back to Newcomers.
I was briefly posting in MLC, so got familiar with some of the folks and their situations there. There is an intensity and drama to their situations. Their WAS's are also in the throes of a MLC, with no end in sight.
Your situation is similar to those in the MLC forum. I think you would find it helpful there.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."