with her h? Jk....hey VC, h's heroes called me yesterday to ask me for my "ballpark" number/job etc. I said stuff like fair market value, listing how much they spend on lobbying, legal, business development plan, etc. They said "no matter what, we know we can't pay you what your worth,: blah blah blah....
Actually a part of me hopes their number is insultingly low so h comes back here. I love it here, it's close to where d18 will be in the fall, d9 loves her school here, now....damn why is this so hard? Major flare ups of fury at h, and mostly not expressing them. Last night, all time record for insomia. Took 2 ambiens and a restoril. Woke up before the alarm went off, but better than the past 2 days. WTH?
OMG VC, what if this is menopause? Could it come on so suddenly? And could the timing be worse?
Back TO YOU....how are you? Hope my post didn't bum you out. I really do have hope for you and h. And your son. You are raising a future h, you know? I bet he'll be a good one. I might even let him date one of my d's. BTW, maybe, maybe ask your h (maybe make up how we met, Auburn Bama game??)
d18 is tall and lean and beautiful. No lie, just saying she's a model. Can't explain the height since I'm 5'3 and we weigh about the same (I'm not fat....or bitter).
SO, this guy ha been pestering her for months. Asking her out, complimenting her, awkwardly...she has NEVER gone out with him. But she isn't "worldly" like she doesn't get when someone is weird until the obvious shows. His emails, (12 the past 36 hours) are increasingly desparate, and he curses his life. This past week he has gotten really angry at 1) boy who sat next to d, instead of stalker boy and he cussed at the kid, IN class, how weird is that? 2) when d went to class in the 'company' of another, stalker boy slams doors so loudly that it broke glass,
3) interrupts her when she is talking to any other boy, and demands an introduction. Says "so, who's your friend?" in a menacing way, and the poor guy she was talking to was from Young Life, the Christian youth group she's in... I had a bad experience growing up so I'm kind of jittery about wackos. I grew up in an upper middle class place, not rich, but nice. When I was 16, my friend Becky and I both had older sisters who were seniors, and little sisters who were in junior high. Her older sister broke up with her bf of one year, at the start of senior year. "John" wallowed and wallowed and followed and followed, crying, pursuing, etc. 11 months later she had a date with another guy and late that Sat night john came over crying and said he'd kill himself if she didn't take him back. She went upstairs to Becky and said "wtf do I do with him? He's threatening suicide." Becky doesn't know exactly what her reply was, but she was irritated and afraid John would wake their family with his whining and noise. Said something about not "waking up dad and mom up". So her sister goes back downstairs and 5 minutes later screams. He's stabbed her, and she died on the living room floor. He ran away and her parents were yelling "What have you done?!" It was a shock, to say the least. So, yeah, I'm paranoid. No threats to d18 yet, but then, Becky's sister didn't get threats made either. KWIM?
What I remember most was wondering how the hell we had all missed that he was this odd/weird/ guy, or had he just changed, gotten sick, was he always a nut that we thought was "harmless" and "intense"? Thoughts? Sorry if I'm hijacking, just got another email from him and I ANSWERED for d18 saying, "I've been polite, honest and clear. I have no interest in that type of R with you." d
okay?
Take care, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
