NOPkins, I want to thank you for all the advice. It truly has helped! We are far from out of the woods, but I was so encouraged by last night. We did NOT fight. We successfully small talked and he reached out to me and we made love before falling asleep. He has told me he loves me three times in the last day. I have reciprocated.
I changed my passwords out of anger right after finding out he changed his, but silently changed them back again almost immediately afterwards. Thanks for the advice on that. In an effort to not TALK AT ALL about things, I have not mentioned this to him, but you can be sure I will in our session on Monday when we are supposed to discuss his email relationship. I feel like I need to "prepare" for that, but I don't really know what to do!
THANKS FOR READING AND FOR ALL THE ADVICE! It is SO appreciated!!
