I see what you're saying whatis. I just have all of this newfound anger and resentment for learning the truth. And this is overpowering any loving thoughts or feelings I might have. Plus, I am really tired.

I know she still has contact because she calls him on her lunch breaks, I see the phone bill. She likes to hear his voice, and he's someone to talk to for her. I just wonder if she's still probing him again to see if there's something there. OK, I'm going to stop assuming here. I know she will do whatever she's going to do.

And after this snake was done with my my wife he now moves onto her sister, and SIL took the bait. I told SIL what they did, she deserves to know, this snake has already met all of my W's family. But wait, W says they are just "friends" now and that I drove her into his arms when she had her A.

At least she's being nice to me now and asks me how I am doing. But I question her motives.

So there is the question of starting to love again, and starting to trust. Hard to do.

Last edited by sol1696; 05/03/07 03:15 PM.

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