Haha, actually after I wrote that last night, I thought to myself, 'Overboard! What the h*ll am I doing?'. So I don't think she is getting all of that, or a cavas at this point.
Last night we had another little baby step though. She was working and had a very long day, 12+hrs. She called me and said that she didn't feel well and needed to hear my voice. She then complained about her day and told me how she didn't feel well. I told her just to get into bed, order room service and try to get some sleep, but to call if she needs anything else. After she ate dinner she called me again! Told me that she was sorry for venting to me and asked how my day was (its been awhile since she has done that). I told her and also said not to worry about complaining, sometimes that makes you feel better, plus I do it all the time. She then said 'Ok babe, thank you. I love you and I will call you tomorrow'!! I couldn't believe it. So needless to say I slept very well, couldn't remember the last time I had a good nights sleep. Thanks everyone for your support!