I guess I didn't expect to hear AH you f'd up this morning.
AH you f'd for 20 years, maybe.
But not this morning. This morning was about not assuming, about willing to being vulnerable, about taking responsibility to pursue the conversation until I understand what he meant. He can choose to understand me or not, I can only handle my side of it.
Cheers. ASSuming we understood what the other one wanted, and what the other one meant, by their behaviors, got us where we are today.