are you sure they are benifits? From what I remember it is not easy putting up with a man who is covertly depressed/MLC. She is just low enough to want any crumb of a man.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.