Matilda, It takes courage to take the steps you're taking regarding beginning the preparation stages for D. He's forcing you to take these steps, with his actions, and lack of interest in the M.
I hope he "wakes-up" soon and prevents a great tragedy in his life. He is wounded in some way, yet is keeping his pain to himself, rather than expressing it in a healthier way.
You have no choice, but to hold him accountable for his neglect of the M, and failure to repair the R, and begin the healing process from mistakes in the past. His failure to face his pain is going to create a great upheaval in his life, and to those he loves.
I'm still holding-out hope for you two.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
