I didn't do that part of the book. What I *can* tell you is piecing is a very looong process. H recommitted last September. It's now 8 months later, and if I had to rate my trust and satisfaction w/the M, it would be maybe a 7. I don't know your sitch....my H didn't cheat, but he was "in love" with a coworker and writing letters (never sent) to her. I STILL don't trust it. I don't trust HER, because I don't believe she didn't know.
I guess my basic criteria is, Is progress being made? If so, I'm okay. Is he trying? He'll screw up...but is the general direction forward?
This thing requires patience out the wing wang. Let me know if I can help.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
