Actually, my H doesn't respond to "authority" figures at all, he usually gets his back up when the C has even tried to suggest something.

It's like the calm before the storm, I am expecting he might spring one on me - i.e. just say at the C's office that he can't live under those conditions and he's ready to walk. Now, having said that, I guess if that's all I am worth to him, it tells the story but on the other hand, I would rather he tell it to me first before we got there.

Should I be approaching this subject before then? He's in bed now and has to work again tomorrow night so our time is short before the C session on Friday

Radical honesty would be nice. I don't think there is anything nicer in a relationship then that one person you can bare your soul too - that's just unheard of in "his world" - that would be like selling your soul to the devil

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)