FijiOrBust,

My thoughts exactly. She quit going to "our" counselor and says that she's got a name of a new one, but she just won't go. She won't even take calls from our counselor. I'm still going, but not her. -- It's not her problem.

Many of her friends are great, but they don't know the full situation. The simply want their friend to get better -- they won't tell her anything that think she doesn't want to hear.

I really make me mad that we spend 6 months in counseling and then she gives up when things are getting better.

I just don't think she wants it to work now.

FijiOrBust, I agree with you and I've said similar things to her. But I could go outside and yell at tree and get more action.