Thank you i was going to counsling for 8 months by myself now i go once a month. i have read your sitch and can relate to u alot except my ex is playing games instead of bieng honest with me part of me really thinks she hasnt emotionally detached from me as my counselor says but other part of me says its in my head i just dont think i could really read into this that much where im completely wrong i mean she calls all the time and is always checking on me