Thanks for the quick replies. It is good to get this out and be able to hear from others with no connection to my w or me. Last time this happened, I confided in my family and friends. The message, as cryptic as it was, was always the same. Cut your losses, your kids are resilient, and you deserve better. Then we reconciled after separating, but none of my family or friends ever treated her the same way again. I am trying to be careful this time and work through my emotions before confiding in anyone. I know what they will say, and to be honest, I am a bit embarrassed (for both of us).
Thanks for the venue to do this. Any other words of wisdom or advice is, of course, appreciated.
