Good, it's going to be addressed then at your next session...and it looks like your H will be going. Very good. All of this stuff that has happened this week goes to back up the need for complete transparency in your marriage in order for him to mend the damage he caused to your marriage. I have no doubt your C will reinforce that to him.
It's time for some radical honesty in your marriage. It's hard to do sometimes, but once you get the ball rolling and you both become accustomed to it...it makes your marriage feel like a much safer place to be. It becomes a much safer place for both of you...and as a result the communication/intimacy in general between the two of you will improve. It won't be easy though, but it's a good thing in the long-run.
You never know...by the time the session rolls around, your H MIGHT have come around on providing you with what you need. He might not have, but there is that possibility. He also may respect an "authority figure's" recommendation for complete transparency and his reasoning for it....before he will accept it from you (my H was this way at first). That's not an insult to you either, it's just that well...we wives are often perceived as "nagging", the therapist is a "professional" KWIM?
