I don't know if your H has whore/madonna or not, but mine does. He also enjoys sex....but would never seek it out with me.
The post you wrote that I'm responding to I could have written myself.
I tried addressing this issue for nearly two years before I found out (just a year ago) that my H was actually having his sexual needs met online.
I would ask for sex, and get rejected. I would initiate sex, he'd ignore me. I had NO idea that all along, he was going online....and ignoring my needs.
