imLin
I found it.

Go to; search
in display name: imLin

newer than 2 years
older than 1 years

That found your original post!
and then some.

Hope this helps.
Holly

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.