New To SSM

[COG]

HA,

have you thought about seeing a sex therapist?

Well I've thought about my W seeing one, but can't force her to do it. I never really thought about myself going.

i personally think she is yanking your chain.

Trust me on this one, she has no sexual feelings for me. In fact if it were'nt for the kids, our family, she'd be long gone and frankly so would I. But we're both committed to make it work and that's a good thing. Where there's a will there's a way. She's not jerking my chain, she's just stuck, married to a man she's not HOT for. That's it in a nutshell.

That's reality, it's honest, it's true and now that we know that, the question is, what to do from here. It's a tough spot, and I can complain and whine all day long but that's not going to change anything. So I can leave and tell her to stick it up her ????. Or I can stay, and keep playing different games until something clicks.

Thanks,

COG