No, it's not that, that I can percieve. He says he does enjoy sex--not that an outsider could tell if they were watching. It's just that he doesn't seek it out. He could go weeks and never even ask...it's always me that says "hey you, don't you think it's been long enough!" And usually I get REALLY mad because the longer it takes us to get together and make love the more I feel rejected and let down that he "doesn't find me attractive."
It's a double edge sword at times....but deep down I know he does love me--and I love him...