imlin, that is a very encouraging description of your marriage for me. I am at the 15 month mark, and D is in process, but not going to be final till October at the earlies. And it was to be final last November! Thank you for posting this. Where are your old threads so I can read them?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.