Passionate - take a look at the thread under SSM called Whore/Madonna Syndrome and see if your H fits any of the signs. I never thought what my H had actually had a name but he definitely fits the bill to a "T" and if it is what he has, trying to make him have sex will make things worse, trust me.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)