hey 4 just checking in on you. everything fine here. i am giving my wife one month of darkness and see what happens. then if there is no results i am filing for divorce. i am tired of it. my wife has got so many issues that have nothing to do with me that i should probably run for my life. maybe i will thank her for the opportunity to get out. keep up the positive stuff we will get through this. tough times don't last tough people do.