It is like it didn't happen to her because it DIDN'T freakin happen to her.
She's pretty happy.
And if you can't smile your way through this then you suck and are weak. Do it for the kids.
Sound cruel and unreasonable?
You bet your ass it is.
But an MLC mind REALLY might think that way.
I know I did.
An MLCer can get so high a mighty on that horse that those that don't agree with them and those that hurt because of them are just clearly not on the same path of enlightenment they are.
In short, they're freakin' insane.
And I do mean that.
Thank you for helping me understand from a former WAW/MLC perspective. I keep trying to think, maybe it's like when I freaked out after my friends death. Still I "snapped" out of it when I saw the look on my sons face, I couldn't do that to him again. W thinks this is best for them. I'm a little messed up right now. I just got off the phone with my kiddies. Just seeing how their day went and such. Thinking that I will see them later, knowing that if she has her way in the near future when I hang up with them, I won't be able to say, I'll be home soon and I can't wait to see you, I've missed you all day.
This sucks. I do have to be strong and smile my way through this. Let her figure out how she is going to tell the kids. Why am I getting so worked up about telling them?