Thanks for your input BeingMe--it is up to our H's, no doubt. It is certainly a big risk for us to place trust in them, and we can only do what we can do.
I appreciate the information you sent over--sometimes I secretly wish we could sit down with Dr. Phil and have him knock some sense into H, but I know that H is a big boy who knows that he's done wrong and that someone calling him on the carpet for it will not improve the sitch at all. But we can always fantasize for a moment, dont'cha think?
