I agree that it would be best not to name the baby till you and B talk about it. However, stand your ground when you do, so that the two of you can reach a compromise that you're both happy with. How about one name you like and one he likes? Could Faith be a middle name?
Personally I love Audrey, but H wouldn't go for it. Then we had neighbours whose D was Audrey, and he thought it was such a nice name!! Naming your kids is so impt, it should be something you're both happy with.
I also think BB's letter from H was good. I know that you feel you've changed a lot, and from what I've seen, you have. However, HE obviously does not think so. It doesn't really matter who is right or wrong b/c you each have your own perspective, so you are both right in terms of what you see.
Lisa, please do not make any rash decisions right now; it is just not a good time. B asked you to hold off on the D, so why do you assume he wants you to go ahead? Wouldn't he just say nothing if that were the case?
As long as you've got the CS and alimony under control, there's not rush, right?
Take care, love
Nicola
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