Hi lin,
Just hopped over from Lisa's thread after your comment on alcoholism. Had a question. Did you ever read about adult children from alcoholic parents??

Just occured to me today that it might be helpful. I never did so if you have some good references on books I'd be very happy if you would share them \:\)
(My DH was a child from an alcoholic mother.)
Thanks,
B

PS
Sorry, i did not read up on your thread for a while. Do hope things are still going in the right direction! I'll drop in later \:\)