New To SSM

[COG]

CJ,

Does your w at least wish she wanted to ml?

Yes, definately. She's as frustrated as I am about it. She knows what a great guy I am, what a great R we have, and it frustrates her that she's not able to summon the feelings for sex. She blames it on the past, and tends to believe the desire just died. She loves me dearly, but just does'nt see me in a sexual light. She says that sex has just never been as high a priority for her as it has for me. She knows how important it is to a man, I've tried to explain it many times.

Jacqm,

We've done the weekends away, and there nice, but a little uncomfortable. There's just not a lot of chemistry between us as a couple. We do much better in groups and we have tons of chemistry as co-parents, business partners, dog owners, and best freinds.

I've bought her spa packages, and she uses them. Usually goes with one of her girlfriends. She likes that. She gets a lot of time out of the house. She works out every day, almost never alone, but either with her best girlfriend or in a group. She's VERY social.

Still waiting for more input on the vibrator's! Yay or nay?

Thanks,

COG