Michele, Thanks for your reply. I do hope that I am doing the right thing. I have really backed off of my W, and I just dealing with myself right now.
I sometimes wonder if there is anything I could do or say that would change things. But, I haven't come up with anything except to do "nothing", as I believe that would have the most effect on her, and cause the least damage.
Right now, she is initiating almost all contact... and she contacts me for the most ridiculous things. It really makes me wonder. But, I am afraid to read to much into it. If I am backed off of her, and she has feelings for me and our R, won't she just come to me at some point and tell me how she feels?
Am I doing the right thing by just completely leaving her alone, letting her initiate contact, and just being there for her? That is what I wonder.
