Thanks Yoyo I needed to hear that.... I keep thinking my W is going to run out and file for D. At this point I will not file anything but I cannot stop her if she does.
Now that my W has our kids during the day and not at night, the last two days she has called to let me know what they are up to for the day. This stopped a couple of weeks ago.
She also called me last night after she left the house to ok her plans with our kids this weekend. This is her weekend off so it is her weekend with our kids. As far as I am concerned she is free to do whatever with them as long as it doesn't include the OM. My W is a good mom so I do not worry about her doing anything crazy with our kids - besides bringing them around the OM.
Maybe I am going through a MLC myself because besides thinking about getting a new car I am really contemplating buying a flat panel TV. I think that it would be fun for me and the girls to have a nice TV for movie nights. Not that I cannot have movie nights with our 27 inch TV but sitting in front of a big screen would be cool.
Tonight my W works with the OM and again tomorrow. With them working together I feel it will be impossible for her to get over him.
I have to think of the positives, I put up some boundaries and so far she is respecting them.
