So lost, It sounds like you are doing a good job I cna't give to much advise but just keep up the 180's (have you read divorce remeady)? and keep detaching it sounds like she is starting to come around a little. Yes it does sound like she wants to tell you some thing so just be patient.(look who's talking). Give her the time and space she needs.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
