my husband and i have been married for 12 years he tells me that he has not been attracted to me for atleast the last 6 years he says he has tried to force himself to be. but he never gave me any sign that that was the problem. i knew something was wrong but he never told me anything when i asked. he finally told me after he had an affair and i found out. it was hard at first but i wanted the truth.he has other problems but he won't deal with any of them which is frustrating but its his decision. i can't do it for him. thats why its so important to do things for yourself work on you. i feel better . i am on a selfimprovement campaign . the better i can be the better my marriage can be.so don't loose faith. and on the handif things don't work out. you will be a great person for all you have done and learned . stay strong.
