you have alot of the same questions i have my situation is so similar to yours. i am starting to apply what michele suggests. i am working on myself. being as calm and patient as i can be. we have started counseling and its a slow go. but atleast he is going . i am concentrating on the positives because i feel we have alot of them. he is so selfcentered right now . and thats hard to take but love is patient love is kind. i am trying to let God do all the worrying and work on myself. if i can't talk to him nice than i go out and exercise. or i read things for me. but i still accept and do my responsibilities . i can't be accused of anything except trying to save my marriage. i know it takes two to make a marriage and two to have problems. all i know is that i will have tried everything and anything to save my marriage.
