Thanks for the advice Grace. A new development this morning. I have to take H's sister to a hospital today for a procedure, she is also my best friend. Anyway, I told H yesterday that I wouldnt need him to come in the morning to take the kids to the sitters because I was doing this for his sister. (he comes in the morning to get the kids ready for the sitters as I start work at 7 and he doesnt start until 8). Well I am still sleeping this morning and I hear a knock at the door, so I get up to see who it is and its H with coffee. So he visited for a half hour or so and then he went off to work. Boy he sure is confusing sometimes. Im sure he just came to visit the kids but I still cant help but wonder why else he would do that. Oh well Im not gonna get my hopesup cause I dont want to be let down. Can anyone give me some insight into this? Heather
