YES!! his dad was a raging alcoholic and also big in the car biz so never home- just like my H.
AS far as the name- I liked it ok but it was all his choosing really, instead of us together so I always wanted to name my little girl Faith- he said NOPE- so the name is all his- I was wanting to name her something I liked. I thought Brianna b/c well our 7 y/o has my H's dad's middle name as his and our 4 y/o has his brother's middle name as his middle name so I thought that naming her after her dad would be special- guess I am wrong.
Truthfully, I don't know what I want from him- It would be much easier to walk away myself- He is never going to see the issues in his life and work on those- NEVER.
thanks again guys
Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12