What is rock bottom?

[a new 2moro]

my H is still hanging on the side of a cliff......spending for OW....reeling about debt.....but he used all the money we could paid on it with for OW....calls it "our" problem....why wnot i help with our debt....but sometimes when i tell him i am truely sorry for the mess he has gotten himself into...i get no rebuttal.....steadfstly hanging on to OW....no bottom yet...tho this winter i thought he mite do it.....he got a new job and that seems to have revitalized his resolve ...i kinda agree with both.....a Loss and and admittal....in thi case its gonna take both...