Woke up this morning deciding I will not wait for H to make a decision! Here is where I start:
1. Ordered tapes from DivorceCare. I am considering a group, but first I thought I'd listen to the tapes. Hoping this will help me build up my confidence to be alone (having been married for almost 30 years I am a bit scared to be on my own!We are almost near retirement....hate the thought of changing my plans and dreams at this time of my life)
2. Learn all I can about our finances (H has always taken care of our investments)
3. Research a new job in an area I can afford. I need to be settled by the time school starts next fall. I need to talk to a lawyer about moving out of state.
