My Marriage still feels hopeless

[Yoyowife]

Dont' be so hard on yourself about the other couple's D. I'm sure she already suspected it and would have confirmed it some way or the other. It was her decision to start D. But if you are concerned that this might push your wife to file D since she knows that he is getting D, it hasn't in my sitch. The OW filed for D 3 days after my H moved out and he still hasn't filed for D. That was 6 montths ago. Keep PMA up and DBing. I also think the meal idea is excellent. It gives you time to relax and enjoy your children.