Good. *nods approvingly* You've got a lot of spirit under fire, Heywyre. I really admire that.

Tell him to h*ll with his control this, control that. He's either in an open, honest, TRANSPARENT loving relationship, or he can find someone else to play little games with. "Secrets" are for boys. Men do not need secrets.

You might just want to phrase that a little more diplomatically.