I know I don't "have" to do anything but I will also not live a lie. If your aunt was okay with living with a man that screwed around on her, fine, that was HER choice. Perhaps she knew about it, they came to an agreement about it, that's great, she is more tolerant than I am for sure.

I can handle the truth, I can handle him coming clean and us dealing with things TOGETHER from this point forward.

What I WON'T deal with is living a lie - either he wants to work on rebuilding this M or not, I am not playing any more games from this point forward. What will I do if he says "yes, its still going on" or "yes, I did see her yesterday" - I don't know. I will cross that bridge when I come to it but all I know right now is that I can't live with lies anymore. Either he is in this all the way or not at all, there's no half way

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)