Whore/Madonna Syndrome

[Heywyre]

Well, we had the "talk" and I thought I handled it quite well but all of a sudden he freaked out, raised his voice (which he never does) and said "NO WOMAN IS GOING TO DOMINATE MY LIFE"

I don't know where the hell that came from but I very calmly said, "what makes you think I am trying to dominate your life, if anything YOU are the one that has control over everything from day one. You have access to everything about me" I told him I have done nothing but love him unconditionally and be by his side. I didn't throw anything in his face (although I sure felt like it). I kept calmly repeating that I loved him and that we have been through so much and we are still together, that has to count for something. He didn't say much, seemed to calm down and then just said "I'm not saying anything right now, I have to be by myself and think a few things through. All I know is that I was happy until I started getting involved in relationships and that maybe it's just better to not get involved in one and just be by myself"

I just about fell over. Four days ago he told the C that we were doing so well and that he felt our R was going to be even better than it had ever been and now he's talking being by himself? WTH?

I am in shock