Looks like the email to you was really to ask you on a date.
I don't know how seamless the shift is from the OM to the LBS. It's fuzzy at times.
The truth is unless she breaks it off with OM, she's still in a fog and only partially sees you. But maybe the partial seeing is doing some good and may lead her to wonder what she might be missing.
Frank is advocating the tough love approach: if you are having an affair with someone, don't expect me to act like your husband. It's a very strict and unrelenting application of the LRT.
MC, just experiment and monitor the results.
I'm proud of you. You are doing great. You are a good man. May God bless you.
