I know....and I truly wish we could spend more time as a FAMILY. My W thinks that she needs to work very hard to get by, and she will have that mentality if she lives on her own...work work work. She doesn't know she can work smarter - like in an office, and not be so exhausted at the end of the day. On the outside she comes across as a strong, yet stubborn independent woman. But on the inside, she has shown weakness by giving in to the lures of another man and rejecting completely her marriage and her family. She was out of her mind then. But I too see that she's partially insane, but showing signs of coming back to her senses.
She's missing out on a lot right now. I love children, I want to spend quality time with little ones and give them the things that I never had - like lots of time spent with daddy. I want more kids - W doesn't. Just 2 more - ideally.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~