Do they REALLY get it one day that they too had a hand in it? I hope he will get there. The only thing he has said is that he should have taken control years ago, and like the preacher said at church one day, that the man is supposed to lead his family and he feels he never did, but allowed me to. Will he ever apologize for the affair? He has said it wasn't wrong. I don't let that occupy my mind, but now and then, I can't help but wonder just what he is thinking about that now. I wouldn't ask him, but I wish I could read his mind.
I took your advice, and just went over to amazon.com and ordered the book FWO.
And it is so tough to sit there and listen while he once again relives the past, telling me my mistakes again. I sometimes want to ask him if I ever did anything right. But his rants are getting less severe, so I guess it's a good sign.
